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Frequently
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Over
the years we have been asked many questions by newcomers
before they come for the first time. We thought it would
be a good idea to try to list the main ones here in order
to make your first visit easier.
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We
have no rules about what you should wear. About half the newcomers
come dressed in male clothes the first time, just to get their
confidence and to see what everyone else is wearing. There
is absolutely nothing wrong with this and you wont stand out
particularly if you do, because there are always some people
dressed in male clothes for various reasons.
But,
if possible, I always try to advise newcomers to bring some
clothes with them, in a bag, just in case they wish they had,
once they get here. They dont have to use them that evening
but if they haven't got them with them then they cant change
and they may wish they could after only a very short time
with us. So be prepared.
For
those that are confident enough to come dressed then what
should they wear? If you take a look at Mary's Blog and ignore
the party evenings, just look at all the other photos. You
will see that there is a great variety of outfits being worn,
from mini skirts to smart suits. It is entirely up to you
to wear what you feel comfortable in.
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What
is is like to use the changing room?
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We
have a small changing room at the club with mirrors and
lights available but no running water.
Immediately next to it there is a large ladies toilet which
has mirrors and lights plus hot and cold running water.
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Is
the area safe to walk around dressed?
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Transgender
girls, ie transvestites or transexuals, have been using
the area of the gay village, where we are situated, for
probably 30 years now, so rest assured, we are all now treated
as part of the scenery and dont stand out in any special
way. So just relax and enjoy yourself.
As far as I know almost all the Bars or restaurants in this
area will make you welcome. Recently some have opened which
are introducing a "Men only" policy as they wish
to become comfortable venues for gay men and these do not
welcome any female customers. The doormen will make it clear
which they are. Do not take offence, they are not denigrating
you, just move on and go somewhere that will welcome you.
There are still plenty to choose from.
Safety
in the Village advice.
The
vast majority of us use the village and all its facilities
without having any problems with the other people who are
also there to enjoy themselves.
But, remember that it is in the middle of a large city and
there will always be some people around who can cause trouble.
Also realise that if you walk around on your own then you
are seen as a girl alone and "some" men may try
to take advantage of this, so be aware of those around you.
Plan
your trips
1. If you wish to stay in a local hotel on your own and
plan to be out clubbing late at night, I would strongly
suggest that you should find a friend to accompany you.
Not necessarily sharing rooms, so that you can be there
for each other. If you also wish to "drink a lot"
then this preplanning is even more vital as "Common
Sense" can so easily go out the window leaving you
to do unwise things. Concord is there to enable you to find
friends you feel comfortable with. Use it! we are all here
to help each other.
2. If you do find yourself in a club on your own, late at
night and you wish to return to your car then I suggest
you ask another T girl to accompany you back to your car.
After which you can either drive her back to the club you
came from, or else to her car, so she can go home.
3. Try to be prepared when visiting the village by bringing
enough cash with you so that you don't have to use a local
cash machine while dressed.
4. Carry an alarm.
5. Use the club bouncers, they are there to help us all.
They should be able to at least keep someone talking while
you move on.
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Where
can I park my car?
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The
parking bays in Bloom street near the club are free after
8 pm until 8 am the following morning.
If you arrive earlier than 8 pm then these spaces cost £2.70
per hour but you are only allowed to stay for two hours
if you park anytime before 8pm.
If you have hotel accomodation in the area then it can be
useful to feed the parking meter for up to 2 hours which
will carry over to the following morning from 8 am allowing
you to park until 10 am. You only get this max of two hours
if you feed the meter after 8pm.
If
you are prepared to walk a bit further then in the streets
parallel to Whitworth street such as Venice street on the
side further from canal street it is possible to pay for
three hours parking on the meters there for a total of £4,
so if you wish to arrive at 5 pm which is when I normally
get there, this is where I now normally park.
A
little bit further away in Charles street there is a multi
storey car park in which you can park at 5 pm on a wednesday
evening till midnight for only £2 so this is the best
value but a bit further to walk.
If
you wish to visit the village on either a Saturday or a
Sunday then you can park in this Charles street car park
all day for just £2 which is much cheaper than anywhere
else.
If
you cannot find an available meter space then my advice,
at least till you get to know the area, is to park either
in the Bloom street car park or the Chorlton street multi
storey car park but these can be very expensive.
FINALLY
NEVER EVER park in a disabled bay unless you have the
relevant display card. It doesn't matter what time it is
or day of the week, your car will be towed away and you
will have to pay about £140 to get it back. It is
simply not worth it.
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Will
I stand out as a newcomer when I come in the club?
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The
organisers will know you are a newcomer and will go out of
their way to try to make you feel comfortable and welcome.
But, most people who come to the club dont attend every week,
so the majority of the people there will have no idea that
you are new. You therefore dont need to feel that you will
stand out.
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Can
I bring my wife or partner?
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Yes
of course you can, wives and partners are always welcome at
the club and can come in at no cost at any time.
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What
do you do at the meetings?
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The
meetings are very informal. They are really just get togethers
of like minded people who have something in common that they
enjoy and wish to share with others. We sometimes have themes
or people showing relevant products or services and these
are all advertised on this web site.
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What
is the easiest way to drive to Bloom street?
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This
is quite a hard question to answer and obviously depends
on which direction you are coming from, so we will try to
suggest four possible routes, from North, South, East and
west. The easy way for us is to say use a SAT NAV but we
dont all have them yet so we will try to answer the question.
But,
if you have a Sat Nav, then the useful bit of info is the
Post Code of NewYork NewYork in Bloom Street which is M1
3LY.
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Lets
start with the south and west.
If you are approaching Manchester up the M56
Continue
all the way up the M56 which leads on to Princess Parkway.
Keep straight on up Princess Parkway through several sets
of traffic lights until you get to the roundabout at the
end which has the Manchester inner ring road going overhead.
Go straight over this roundabout and continue to the next
set of traffic lights which are just under an overhead railway
bridge. Turn right at these lights and continue ahead to
the traffic lights at the Palace theatre.
Go straight across these lights leaving the Palace on your
left, cross over the next set of lights at Princess street
and turn left at the next set of lights into Sackville Street.
Go up past the Rembrandt Hotel on your right, past Richmond
Street and the next road is Bloom street.
Here you can either turn left into Bloom Street and look
for a vacant parking space or turn right and go to the end
and turn left into Chorlton Street. The next left is into
the bus station and immediately after that is the ramp up
to the multi storey car park.
NewYork NewYork is the building on the corner of the car
park in Bloom Street.
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Coming
from the west
If
you are coming from the East Lancs road then
continue along this going straight over the first traffic
lights you come to rather than veering over to the left
towards Salford. Keep going straight on through the lights
until you find yourself going under a railway bridge and
then through an underpass.
As you leave the underpass keep over to the left and veer
off onto the side road which will take you to a roundabout.
Turn left here and continue to the next set of traffic lights
which are just under an overhead railway bridge. Turn right
at these lights and continue ahead to the traffic lights
at the Palace theatre.
Go straight across these lights leaving the Palace on your
left, cross over the next set of lights at Princess street
and turn left at the next set of light into Sackville Street.
Go up past the Rembrandt Hotel on your right, past Richmond
Street and the next road is Bloom street.
Here you can either turn left into Bloom Street and look
for a vacant parking space or turn right and go to the end
and turn left into Chorlton Street. The next left is into
the bus station and immediately after that is the ramp up
to the multi storey car park.
NewYork NewYork is the building on the corner of the car
park in Bloom Street.
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Directions
from the East
If
you are travelling from the Sheffield area, you will travel
either via the Woodhead Pass (A628), the Snake Pass (A57)
or via the Hope Valley (which connects with the A6 through
Stockport).
These
routes all converge at the Ardwick roundabout by the Apollo
Theatre. Take the A6 exit towards the city centre (a small
park on your right) and continue through the next sequence
of traffic lights that take you under the Mancunian Way.
You will then pass under a railway bridge which is followed
fairly quickly by another set of traffic lights (Piccadilly
Station is now on your right). At these lights, turn left
onto Whitworth Street. Go through the next set of lights
and turn right at the set after onto Sackville Street. The
Rembrandt is immediately on your right after the canal bridge.
Go
up past the Rembrandt Hotel on your right, past Richmond
Street and the next road is Bloom street.
Here you can either turn left into Bloom Street and look
for a vacant parking space or turn right and go to the end
and turn left into Chorlton Street. The next left is into
the bus station and immediately after that is the ramp up
to the multi storey car park.
NewYork NewYork is the building on the corner of the car
park in Bloom Street.
Directions from the North
Travelling
from Leeds and the North East, take the M62 to Junction
20. Turn left to take the A627(M) in the direction of Oldham.
This leads directly onto the A663 Broadway. This continues
for approx 2 miles. At the end of a short stretch of dual
carriageway, turn right at the T junction onto the A62 (Oldham
Road). After about 1.5 miles, you will be on the edge of
the city centre at a set of traffic lights at what is effectively
a T-junction. Turn left onto Great Ancoats Street (A665)
keeping in the left hand lanes. After about ¾ mile
(and about 6 sets of traffic lights), the road veers round
to the right at a set of traffic lights near Ark Trading.
Immediately after this set, turn right at the next set onto
Fairfield Street. You will then be on the A57 and will shortly
pass under two railway bridges, with Piccadilly Station
on your right. Straight through the next sets of lights
(old Fire Station on your right), then through the next
set, and turn right at the set after that onto Sackville
Street (small park on your right). The Rembrandt is immediately
on your right after the canal bridge.
Go
up past the Rembrandt Hotel on your right, past Richmond
Street and the next road is Bloom street.
Here you can either turn left into Bloom Street and look
for a vacant parking space or turn right and go to the end
and turn left into Chorlton Street. The next left is into
the bus station and immediately after that is the ramp up
to the multi storey car park.
NewYork
NewYork is the building on the corner of the car park in
Bloom Street.
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